What do you do when your boyfriend is in the military?

Here are some ways to cope with a military boyfriend: Tell him how much you love him. Let him know you are worried about him but dont stress him with dramatics. Make sure he knows you will be there for him, and he can talk to you about anything.

Can my boyfriend live with me in the military?

If one of those people falls ill or injured, he can come home for them. If a girlfriend or boyfriend falls ill or injured, the soldier cannot come home for them. Others marry so they can live with their partner — without marriage, the soldier must live in the barracks without their partner.