If its been a few weeks or even months into seeing each other and he hasnt mentioned defining the relationship or setting more concrete labels, whether its being exclusive or being official, then it shows that he just sees you as a hook-up or a casual thing.

How do you tell if a guy likes you or just wants to get in your pants?

8 Signs He Just Wants To Get Into Your PantsHe talks too much about himself. He puts no effort to know what matters to you. Hes not there for you when you need him. He tries to get uncomfortably close to you on the first date. His idea of a date is just to hang out at his place. He doesnt like to involve friends.More items •11 Dec 2015

How do you know if a guy likes you more than a hookup?

As a booty call or hookup only, hes only going to text or call when he gets laid if he sees you. If he thinks about you as something more, though, hes going to be in alot more regular contact. A good sign that he wants more with you if hes texting you daily, and replies to your messages immediately, thats.