When to Ask for a Second Date You should ask for a second date within two to five days of your first date. This timeframe shows a genuine interest in the person and conveys you enjoy their company enough to ask for a second date.

Should I suggest a second date?

As long as you havent encountered any big deal-breakers during that first date, and the date went pretty well, then you should be willing to go on a second date even if the proverbial sparks didnt fly, Mayo says. So dont make judgements too fast. Some people may just need one or two more dates to warm up to you.

When should you expect a second date?

Some people expect that the second date will be an appropriate time to show more physical affection. If you didnt kiss much or at all after your first date, then perhaps things will be different on the second date. Dont be afraid to show your date that youre interested and that you have feelings for them.