Three dates is a good rule of thumb. If youre not feeling any sense of chemistry or attachment, its OK to give up. If you want to keep trying, go for it, but make sure to be careful of his feelings too.

How do you know if a guy likes you after a few dates?

Other signs a guy likes you include the way he looks at you, his body language, how engaged he is when you speak, if he asks questions about your life and seems genuinely interested, and if he reaches out to you after a date to tell you that he enjoyed spending time with you or that he would like to do it again.