How do you find someone you love?

12 basic rules to find loveThe Youll find love when youre not looking approach may be wrong. Go where people like the same things you like. Look up from your phone. Dont seek romance, seek partnership. Happy people attract people. Take time to be by yourself. Instant sexual attraction often fades.More items •13 Feb 2017

Why is it so hard to find someone who really loves you?

The most common reason why its so hard to fall in love is a fear of commitment. Labels can terrify some people, but for others, the uncertainty of where the relationship stands is also terrifying. And if youve found someone you care about (and could potentially even love), then be honest with them about how you feel.