Researchers have discovered that avoidant people tend to play hard to get, while anxious people find hard-to-get tactics irresistible. Researchers even found that they could encourage men to play hard to get by priming them with feelings of avoidance.

Why do guys like hard to get?

When you make it a bit harder for a suitor to get your attention, you are perceived as having greater value as a partner, and the challenge is a turn-on. It was thereby found that playing hard to get can absolutely increase attraction. According to eHarmony, surveys reveal women and men should both play hard to get.

How do you play hard to get with a guy youve already slept with?

12 Ways To Keep A Man Interested After Sleeping With HimConsider his mindset. Some guys chase girls for one thing – sex. Understand the shift. Keep it casual! Focus on yourself. Mix it up. Be spontaneous. Be confident – or at least fake it! Keep it sexy.More items •7 Jul 2021