Question: Why am I attracted to men with girlfriends?

Why do I always like Taken guys?

Most likely its because you dont have a guard up when youre around a “taken” man. Hes in the safe zone for you, meaning you believe hes not on the prowl. Also, youre not distracted by questions of whether you like him, are interested in him or worried about how youre coming across to him.

Is it normal to be attracted to other girls in a relationship?

The short answer is yes, according to relationship experts In one study published in Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy, almost 70% of participants said theyd experienced some kind of attraction toward someone other than their partner while in a long-term relationship.

Why do I always want guys I cant have?

Maybe you dont have enough self-esteem, so you only like guys who you cant be with so that you dont have to feel awkward or afraid. People usually dont want what they really cant have they want whats just out of reach. Maybe youre suffering from being human.

Why do I only like unavailable guys?

Consider that another reason you may be drawn to emotionally unavailable partners is that some part of you is also unavailable. Perhaps you consciously want commitment, but deep down you fear true intimacy, losing your sense of self in the relationship, or getting hurt.

Why do I push good guys away?

Pushing people away is one way of avoiding intimacy. In fact, this avoidance can act as a defense mechanism for people afraid of getting hurt in relationships. The thought of a close intimate relationship makes you uncomfortable, so you do what you can to avoid intimacy as a means of self-preservation.

Why am I attracted to guys who dont like me?

More often than not, when were really attracted to someone, but they dont like us nearly as much in return, its because we are in that space of insecurity, neediness and unworthiness. We feel like were not good enough and were nervous about being rejected.

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