Be suspicious of your gut — when you feel attracted to someone, it may be because he/she is emotionally unavailable. Your gut most likely got you into this pattern in the first place. Your gut may be attracted to those who only seem available when they are choosing you, but when they catch you, they lose interest.

Why do I keep attracting unavailable guys?

Often, when a person consistently attracts unavailable people, it is because there is some unconscious fear of rejection and/or fear of engulfment that may actually be causing you to be unavailable -- even though you believe you are available.

How do you know if an unavailable guy likes you?

9 Signs An Emotionally Unavailable Man Is In LoveYouve triggered his “hero instinct.” He lets you see more of who he is. He shares some of his past with you. He shows a desire to change. He sees a future with you. His words and actions line up. He values your opinion — and even asks for it.More items •Feb 14, 2021