Your partner texting someone else doesnt automatically mean theyre cheating on you. If theyre texting someone else, it could just be a friend or an acquaintance. If your partner acts shady or doesnt want you to see their conversation, thats when you know you might have a problem.

Can you delete text messages after you send them?

You cant delete a sent message from another persons device on either iOS or Android. If you delete the message or conversation, the other person will still have a record of it.

Can you look at iMessages you deleted?

Heres how to retrieve those deleted messages. Open Settings, and tap on your name/picture at the top. Select iCloud > Manage Storage, then tap Backups. Youll be presented with a list of available backups; tap one to see when it was saved.