Having the talk means youre ready to make a relationship official. Some couples simply slip into a committed relationship, whereas others need a direct conversation about it. According to a relationship expert, its socially acceptable to broach the subject after two months.

How long before your relationship is official?

The two month rule While of course its different for everyone, according to relationship psychologist and data analyst Claire Stott, 2 months is an optimum amount of time for the average couple to date before they start a relationship.

When should you kiss your girlfriend?

The golden rule is to ask for a kiss when shes as relaxed as possible. That classic opportunity — the end of a date, whether is the first date or a later one — is ideal. Youve gotten to know each other, youve walked her home, and suddenly, theres a long silence. She probably wont be surprised if you ask right now.